Here she is, studying the old photographs with her Grandparents, and pointing out how different they look today. |
And this is what she found so interesting!
Mammy as a baby |
I forget how precious little things, like an old photograph are. How they can bring memories flooding back. I am fortunate to have a lot of photos of Lutaaya from her being around 3-4years old, from my trips to Uganda and links with other people who have visited the home she is from in the past to the present day. Unfortunately, we will never have the baby photo to put up proudly on the wall, or the toddler photos. We won't have any memories of first steps or first words.
It is sad to think of this, but it isn't all sadness, as what we have now are opportunities to create new memories. We have been trying to do the things that maybe Lutaaya missed out on, or the things she never had anyone to share the joy with. So rather than dwell on the negatives, we look forward to the photo album Lutaaya is creating, of all her own special memories since she came home.
did you adopt through holt? I love your story of adopting her!
ReplyDeleteI met her when I was there for the first time in 2008!! And I loved her she is so precious!
I'm so glad you found our blog when you actually know my daughter. I didn't adopt through Holt as they don't work in the UK. Due to my involvement with the charity, I was able to do an independent adoption. They don't often allow this and now advocate American adoptions through Holt.
ReplyDeleteKeep reading as we'll keep the stories coming